30 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love

30 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love:

1. Make her feel secure. Allow her to feel the sakeena.
2. Greet her with “As-salaamu-alaikum wa rahmatullah” - this will keep the shaytan out of your home
3. Know your wife is fragile a whistle - take care of this whistle (i.e. treat her in a gentle way)...
4. Advice her in privacy and during a loving, romantic and/or peaceful atmosphere
5. Be generous to your wife
6. Give her your space/seat
7. Avoid anger - one way is to keep wudhu at all times, another is to sit down or lie down when angry
8. Looking good, smelling great
9. Dont be rigid or you may break - be good and be flexible
10. Be a good listener
11. Say Yes to flattery, No to arguments
12. Call your wife with the best of names
13. Give her pleasant surprises
14. Preserve the tongue (i.e. don’t say abusive words since some words take years to wipe out)
15. Accept her shortcomings
16. Show her that you appreciate her
17. Encourage her to keep her kin relationships, especially with her mother and father
18. Pick topics of her interest during conversations
19. Show that she is a wonderful wife in front of her relatives (and friends)
20. Give her gifts anytime
21. Get rid of the “rust” (routine of life) once in a while
22. Think good of your wife
23. Overlook any small words or actions that you did not like (i.e. dont save it in your memory)
24. Add a drop of patience every day. Increase this patience during pregnancy and monthly cycle
25. Expect and respect her jealousy
26. Be humble - know that her success at home is your success
27. Dont make your friends happy in lieu of your wife’s happiness
28. Help with housework
29. Dont try to force your wife to love your mother. Help her to respect your mother and father and gradually the love will come
30. Make her feel that she is an ‘ideal’ wife